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		<title>Someone Stole My Debit Card!</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Nov 2011 04:01:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tom Hogsed</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Funny Stories]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[I decided to stop in at McDonalds yesterday morning to pick up a Frappe before work; however, my day suddenly took a turn for the worst as the lady at window 1 informed me that my debit card had been declined.  That seemed odd to me, especially since I had balanced my checkbook the night before and was certain that I had at least three dollars to cover the Caramel Frappe.  After paying for my order with another card (it pays to Discover), I quickly parked in the McDonalds parking lot to check my bank transactions on my phone and I soon discovered that some redneck from North Carolina (I can say that since I grew up in NC) attempted to use my card number to make several hundred dollars worth of purchases.  At first I tried to call my bank but their system was down ( yay for that), so I stopped in at the local branch as soon as they opened.  The bank teller made a phone call to the fraud department and confirmed my fears - some redneck in North Carolina tried to use my debit card number!  Thankfully, the transactions had been declined even though my number was used and I only have to go through the minor inconvenience of getting a new card.  I guess it could have been a lot worse.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://tomhogsed.com/2011/11/02/someone-stole-my-debit-card/2039_visa_3/" rel="attachment wp-att-6156"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-6156" title="2039_visa_3" src="http://tomhogsed.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/2039_visa_3.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a>I decided to stop in at McDonalds yesterday morning to pick up a Frappe before work; however, my day suddenly took a turn for the worst as the lady at window 1 informed me that my debit card had been declined.  That seemed odd to me, especially since I had balanced my checkbook the night before and was certain that I had at least three dollars to cover the Caramel Frappe.  After paying for my order with another card (it pays to Discover), I quickly parked in the McDonalds parking lot to check my bank transactions on my phone and I soon discovered that some redneck from North Carolina (I can say that since I grew up in NC) attempted to use my card number to make several hundred dollars worth of purchases.  At first I tried to call my bank but their system was down ( yay for that), so I stopped in at the local branch as soon as they opened.  The bank teller made a phone call to the fraud department and confirmed my fears &#8211; some redneck in North Carolina tried to use my debit card number!  Thankfully, the transactions had been declined even though my number was used and I only have to go through the minor inconvenience of getting a new card.  I guess it could have been a lot worse.</p>
<p>After this situation had been resolved, I began to think about what would motivate someone to take something that is not their own.</p>
<p>&#8230;but then I remembered I do this everyday.  My life has been purchased through the blood of Christ and I no longer own it; therefore, when I take it back, I&#8217;m taking something that doesn&#8217;t belong to me.  Paul wrote these words to the church at Corinth, &#8220;Don’t you realize that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit, who lives in you and was given to you by God?  You do not belong to yourself, for God bought you with a high price. So you must honor God with your body (1 Corinthians 6:17-18, NLT).</p>
<p>Have you taken possession of a life that is not rightfully yours?   Maybe it&#8217;s time that you return it to the Owner.</p>
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		<title>What Happened After Dark?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Sep 2011 04:01:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tom Hogsed</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[God]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship with God]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Truth]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Since the beginning of the school year, it seems like we have been busy every single night, which means that some other things in our schedule had to be put on hold...like mowing the yard.  I finally realized that the yard could no longer be ignored unless we wanted to compete with the Amazon jungle, so I decided to cram it in right before the sun went down.  I knocked out the front yard without any visibility issues, but when I arrived in the back yard the light was quickly fading.  Rather than leaving the yard half done, I determined to quicken my pace and try to complete the job even though there was limited light.  Miraculously, I was able to finish the entire yard in just 30 minutes, which is approximately 15-20 minutes less than it normally takes.  I was proud of myself, that is, until I woke up the next morning and noticed that some sections of grass had been missed the night before.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://tomhogsed.com/2011/09/08/what-happened-after-dark/1093344_the_moon/" rel="attachment wp-att-5762"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-5762" title="1093344_the_moon" src="http://tomhogsed.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/1093344_the_moon.jpg" alt="" width="231" height="300" /></a>Since the beginning of the school year, it seems like we have been busy every single night, which means that some other things in our schedule had to be put on hold&#8230;like mowing the yard.  I finally realized that the yard could no longer be ignored unless we wanted to compete with the Amazon jungle, so I decided to cram it in right before the sun went down.  I knocked out the front yard without any visibility issues, but when I arrived in the back yard the light was quickly fading.  Rather than leaving the yard half done, I determined to quicken my pace and try to complete the job even though there was limited light.  Miraculously, I was able to finish the entire yard in just 30 minutes, which is approximately 15-20 minutes less than it normally takes.  I was proud of myself, that is, until I woke up the next morning and noticed that some sections of grass had been missed the night before.</p>
<p>The darkness limits what I see, but light exposes the truth.</p>
<p>If you are walking in darkness, you may not <strong>think</strong> you are missing something; however, when you are walking in the light, you will <strong>know</strong> if you are missing something.  Since the apostle John identifies God as light (1 John 1:5), He becomes the ultimate determiner of truth, which means that the truth cannot be known without exposure to God and His word.  The more a person is exposed to the Light, the more he or she will become aware of the darkness in his life.  This is one of the major reasons I believe that those who walk closest to God often feel the most unworthy to be in His presence.</p>
<p>If you constantly feel the weight of your sin as a result of being exposed to the Light, be grateful to a God who reveals the darkness in your life and leads you into the light.</p>
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		<title>You Won&#8217;t Understand</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Jan 2011 05:01:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tom Hogsed</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Forgiveness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship with God]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[People sin.  You've sinned.  I've sinned.  Paul writes that all have sinned (Romans 3:23).  No need to remind me that I fall short.  My life is a daily reminder of how often I miss the mark.
I try.  I fail.  I try again.  I succeed.  I get prideful.  I get humbled.  I start over.
I'm not sure why God just doesn't give up on us?  He should.  He could.  He doesn't.  It doesn't make sense.
I'm not sure that God's unconditional love will ever be understood by the human heart.  That's okay.
I'll take it.  I'll embrace it.  I need it.  I can't live without it.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://tomhogsed.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/520021_chained.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-3963" title="520021_chained" src="http://tomhogsed.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/520021_chained.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a>People sin.</p>
<p>You&#8217;ve sinned.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve sinned.</p>
<p>Paul writes that all have sinned (Romans 3:23).</p>
<p>No need to remind me that I fall short.  My life is a daily reminder of how often I miss the mark.</p>
<p>I try.  I fail.  I try again.  I succeed.  I get prideful.  I get humbled.  I start over.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not sure why God just doesn&#8217;t give up on us?  He should.  He could.  He doesn&#8217;t.  It doesn&#8217;t make sense.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not sure that God&#8217;s unconditional love will ever be understood by the human heart.  That&#8217;s okay.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll take it.  I&#8217;ll embrace it.  I need it.  I can&#8217;t live without it.</p>
<p><strong>But God</strong> showed his great love for us by sending Christ to die for us while we were still sinners (Romans 5:8, NLT)</p>
<p><strong>But God</strong> is so rich in mercy, and he loved us so much, that even though we were dead because of our sins, he gave us life when he raised Christ from the dead. (It is only by God’s grace that you have been saved!) (Ephesians 2:4-5, NLT)</p>
<p>Those overwhelmed by sin need to be overwhelmed by God&#8217;s love.</p>
<p><em>My chains are gone<br />
I&#8217;ve been set free<br />
My God, my Savior has ransomed me<br />
And like a flood His mercy reigns<br />
Unending love, Amazing grace<br />
(lyrics to Chris Tomlin&#8217;s Amazing Grace, My Chains Are Gone) </em></p>
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		<title>The Next 30 Days of My Life</title>
		<link>http://tomhogsed.com/thoughts/personal-stuff/the-next-30-days-of-my-life/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Jan 2011 05:01:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tom Hogsed</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Personal Stuff]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship with God]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today I am beginning a 30 day trek through the New Testament using YouVersion's New Thru 30 reading plan.  I'm pretty excited about it.  In my opinion, there are very few things as exciting as reading Scripture and allowing God to change me.  Although I'm not always the best at obeying what I read, I know that God is patiently working in my life.  On this particular read through of the New Testament, I'll be paying special attention to the character and attitudes of Jesus (and His apostles) and how I can develop those same characteristics in my own life.  I'm looking to James 1:25 for inspiration, "But he who looks into the perfect law of liberty and continues in it, and is not a forgetful hearer but a doer of the work, this one will be blessed in what he does."  My prayer is that I will respond with obedience to what God is teaching me.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://tomhogsed.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/1206583_grunge_cross.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-3946" title="1206583_grunge_cross" src="http://tomhogsed.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/1206583_grunge_cross.jpg" alt="" width="202" height="300" /></a>Today I am beginning a 30 day trek through the New Testament using YouVersion&#8217;s <a href="http://www.youversion.com/reading-plans/new-thru-30" target="_blank">New Thru 30</a> reading plan.  I&#8217;m pretty excited about it.  In my opinion, there are very few things as exciting as reading Scripture and allowing God to change me.  Although I&#8217;m not always the best at obeying what I read, I know that God is patiently working in my life.  On this particular read through of the New Testament, I&#8217;ll be paying special attention to the character and attitudes of Jesus (and His apostles) and how I can develop those same characteristics in my own life.  I&#8217;m looking to James 1:25 for inspiration, &#8220;But he who looks into the perfect law of liberty and continues <em>in it, </em>and is not a forgetful hearer but a doer of the work, this one will be blessed in what he does.&#8221;  My prayer is that I will respond with obedience to what God is teaching me.</p>
<p><strong>I&#8217;d also like to take this chance to invite you to join me in reading through the New Testament in the next 30 days.</strong> It&#8217;s not too late to start and I believe YOU CAN DO IT.  <a href="http://www.youversion.com/" target="_blank">YouVersion</a> has provided some incredible resources to help you succeed in reading your Bible.  They have provided FREE tools to get the Bible into your hands regardless of your location.  You can read a little about YouVersion&#8217;s Bible apps by clicking <a href="http://www.youversion.com/free-bible-apps" target="_blank">here</a>.</p>
<p>If you are taking this challenge, let me know in the comments so I can pray for you as you journey through God&#8217;s Word.  I promise to pray for you by name and I hope you will do the same for me.</p>
<p>As you are trekking through the New Testament, you may discover that you need some help with certain passages, so I&#8217;ve provided a link to download my <a href="http://tomhogsed.com/nt-commentaries/" target="_blank">personal study guides through every book of the New Testament</a>.  You can also use the <em>Google Custom Search</em> box on this site to locate my thoughts on any passage of Scripture in the New Testament.</p>
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		<title>Coming Clean with God</title>
		<link>http://tomhogsed.com/true-stories/failure/coming-clean-with-god/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Dec 2010 05:01:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tom Hogsed</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Failure]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Whenever I need a new beginning with God, I always turn to Psalm 51.  Although the words written there are David's specific confession for his sin of adultery, they provide a beautiful picture of a heart broken over sin and a man in pursuit of a fresh start with God.  If you need a fresh start today, speak these words to God from a humble heart.  ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://tomhogsed.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/112496_chalk_and_eraser.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-3767" title="112496_chalk_and_eraser" src="http://tomhogsed.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/112496_chalk_and_eraser.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a>Whenever I need a new beginning with God, I always turn to Psalm 51.  Although the words written there are David&#8217;s specific confession for his sin of adultery, they provide a beautiful picture of a heart broken over sin and a man in pursuit of a fresh start with God.  If you need a fresh start today, speak these words to God from a humble heart.</p>
<p>&#8220;Wash me clean from my guilt.  Purify me from my sin.  For I recognize my rebellion; it haunts me day and night. Against you, and you alone, have I sinned; I have done what is evil in your sight.  You will be proved right in what you say, and your judgment against me is just &#8221; (Psalm 51:2-4).</p>
<p>&#8220;Purify me from my sins, and I will be clean; wash me, and I will be whiter than snow&#8221; (Psalm 51:7).</p>
<p>&#8220;Create in me a clean heart, O God.  Renew a loyal spirit within me&#8221; (Psalm 51:10).</p>
<p>&#8220;The sacrifice you desire is a broken spirit.  You will not reject a broken and repentant heart, O God&#8221; (Psalm 51:17).</p>
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		<title>When You Feel Like a Failure&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Nov 2010 05:01:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tom Hogsed</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Each day I'm reminded about far I am from actually living up to God's standards and some days I honestly feel like a failure.  It seems as if I overcome one obstacle just in time for my next weakness to be exposed.  I have confidence that God is working in my life and changing me, but I'm always aware that I have a long way to go.  I've become accustomed to feeling a little behind and I believe a lot of Christians feel the same way.  During these times of guilt and frustration, we must remember that God does not love us based on performance.  Performance based love is human.  God's love is supernatural.  He loves us even though we are not deserving.  ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://tomhogsed.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/450731_dos_screen_-_system_failure.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-3708" title="450731_dos_screen_-_system_failure" src="http://tomhogsed.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/450731_dos_screen_-_system_failure.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="182" /></a>Each day I&#8217;m reminded about far I am from actually living up to God&#8217;s standards and some days I honestly feel like a failure.  It seems as if I overcome one obstacle just in time for my next weakness to be exposed.  I have confidence that God is working in my life and changing me, but I&#8217;m always aware that I have a long way to go.  I&#8217;ve become accustomed to feeling a little behind and I believe a lot of Christians feel the same way.  During these times of guilt and frustration, we must remember that <strong>God does not love us based on performance</strong>.  Performance based love is human.  God&#8217;s love is supernatural.  He loves us even though we are not deserving.</p>
<p>Whether you measure up or not, God loves you.</p>
<p>&#8220;For when we were still without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly.  But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.&#8221; &#8211; Romans 5:6,8</p>
<p>&#8220;But God is so rich in mercy, and he loved us so much, that even though we were dead because of our sins, he gave us life when he raised Christ from the dead. (It is only by God’s grace that you have been saved!)&#8221; &#8211; Ephesians 2:4, NLT</p>
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		<title>Monday Morning Hangover</title>
		<link>http://tomhogsed.com/true-stories/attitude/monday-morning-hangover/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Oct 2010 04:01:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tom Hogsed</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[You left church yesterday with the best of intentions, right?  Your Pastor talked about something relevant to your life and you decided to make a change in response to the truth of God's Word. You really meant it.  This week was going to be different...but then you woke up this morning...Monday morning.  You already feel horrible because you aren't sure that you can make a change in your life.  Doubt starts creep in and you begin to question if you really meant it.  Before you know it, you have given up and rationalized away those feelings of yesterday.  That morning after feeling is normal for all of us, including me.  So, how do we fight off these feelings and submit to God's work in our heart?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://tomhogsed.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/10/520023_frustrated.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-3352" title="520023_frustrated" src="http://tomhogsed.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/10/520023_frustrated.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a>You left church yesterday with the best of intentions, right?  Your Pastor talked about something relevant to your life and you decided to make a change in response to the truth of God&#8217;s Word. You really meant it.  This week was going to be different&#8230;but then you woke up this morning&#8230;Monday morning.  You already feel horrible because you aren&#8217;t sure that you can make a change in your life.  Doubt starts creep in and you begin to question if you really meant it.  Before you know it, you have given up and rationalized away those feelings of yesterday.  That morning after feeling is normal for all of us, including me.  So, how do we fight off these feelings and submit to God&#8217;s work in our heart?</p>
<p>Feelings must be overtaken by fact.  You may not feel as if you can make the necessary change to walk in obedience to Christ, but the fact is that God &#8220;&#8230;is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us&#8230;.&#8221; (Ephesians 3:20).  God&#8217;s ability to change you far outweighs your feelings of doubt.  If God began a work in your heart yesterday, He is capable of bringing it to pass today.</p>
<p>Yesterday, God laid the foundation.  Today, construction begins.</p>
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		<title>Bringing Spanking Back</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Oct 2010 04:01:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tom Hogsed</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Although I am 36 years old, I can still remember a few spankings I deservedly received during my younger days.  I was the type of kid who started crying before I ever got the spanking because the anticipation was so overwhelming.   Usually swift discipline quickly put me back on the straight and narrow; however, with each passing year I noticed myself beginning to resent the correction of my parents and those in authority.  Every time an authority figure exposed a behavior issue, I would outwardly adjust my actions, but inwardly I was angry...angry that someone else was telling me that I was wrong.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://tomhogsed.com/2010/10/06/bringing-spanking-back/72438_watching_the_waves-2/" rel="attachment wp-att-6039"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-6039" title="72438_watching_the_waves" src="http://tomhogsed.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/10/72438_watching_the_waves.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="284" /></a>Although I am 37 years old, I can still remember a few spankings I deservedly received during my younger days.  I was the type of kid who started crying before I ever got the spanking because the anticipation was so overwhelming.   Usually swift discipline quickly put me back on the straight and narrow; however, with each passing year I noticed myself beginning to resent the correction of my parents and those in authority.  Every time an authority figure exposed a behavior issue, I would outwardly adjust my actions, but inwardly I was angry&#8230;angry that someone else was telling me that I was wrong.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s be honest.  Who likes their boss correcting them in a company meeting?  Who enjoys a spiritual mentor pointing out areas that need to be changed?  What child happily receives chastisement from their parents?  Who can abstain from offense when the Pastor preaches against your sin?  What type of person can accept honest feedback from caring friends?  Who finds it easy to love God when He permits consequences for wrongdoing?  Although discipline is difficult to embrace, those who respond properly will live a life of righteousness.  The writer of Hebrews pens these beautiful words, &#8220;No discipline is enjoyable while it is happening—it&#8217;s painful! But afterward there will be a peaceful harvest of right living for those who are trained in this way&#8221; (Hebrews 12:11).</p>
<p>If someone cares about you enough you to correct you, be glad.  A proper response to correction can prevent future consequences.</p>
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		<title>Things You Should Know About My Past</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Oct 2010 04:01:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tom Hogsed</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Letting go of the past is, well, not so easy.  Looking back over my life, I could list numerous regrets and sins which I would be ashamed to admit; in fact, some of those things have been hard to release from memory.  Although I have sought God's forgiveness from my past sins, I still find it complicated to forgive myself.  How could I be so stupid?  Why did I let that area slip?  I knew better.  This morning as I was sitting down to pray and study for my Sunday message at The Summit, something from my past popped into my head out of nowhere.  At first I wondered, "Where did that come from?"  In that moment, I began an honest prayer to God and claimed His forgiveness. I know God had already forgiven me, but all the memories flooded my mind again.  Through the years, especially when regret plagues my soul, I have often reminded myself that the past changes for no one.  The page has been turned.  Yesterday is out of reach.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://tomhogsed.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/10/550107_man_standing_on_the_wall.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-3158" title="550107_man_standing_on_the_wall" src="http://tomhogsed.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/10/550107_man_standing_on_the_wall.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="155" /></a>Letting go of the past is, well, not so easy.  Looking back over my life, I could list numerous regrets and sins which I would be ashamed to admit; in fact, some of those things have been hard to release from memory.  Although I have sought God&#8217;s forgiveness from my past sins, I still find it complicated to forgive myself.  How could I be so stupid?  Why did I let that area slip?  I knew better.  This morning as I was sitting down to pray and study for my Sunday message at <a href="http://www.thesummitgreen.com" target="_blank">The Summit</a>, something from my past popped into my head out of nowhere.  At first I wondered, &#8220;Where did that come from?&#8221;  In that moment, I began an honest prayer to God and claimed His forgiveness. I know God had already forgiven me, but all the memories flooded my mind again.  Through the years, especially when regret plagues my soul, I have often reminded myself that <strong>the past changes for no one</strong>.  The page has been turned.  Yesterday is out of reach.</p>
<p>If your past cannot be altered, why have you been so consumed with it?  Don&#8217;t get me wrong, I understand that sin brings consequences, but does God really desire for you to live in a continual state of regret for things you cannot change?  I really do not think so.  Once you have turned from sin (repented) and received God&#8217;s forgiveness, you must release the sin.  Isaiah wrote concerning this very topic, &#8220;All of us, like sheep, have strayed away.  We have left God&#8217;s paths to follow our own.  Yet the Lord laid on him the sins of us all&#8221; (Isaiah 53:6).</p>
<p>Listen, you have done some terribly stupid things in the past.  So have I.  God knew you would break His commandments and sometimes stray away from Him, so He took drastic measures 2,000 years ago when He treated His own Son, Jesus, as if He had committed those sins you actually committed.  Those very sins which have consumed your life, have been shouldered by Jesus Christ.  He shouldered that divorce.  He shouldered that lie.  He shouldered your perversion.  He shouldered your secret sin.  He shouldered your cheating.  He shouldered your deception.  He shouldered your failings as a parent.  He shouldered that lust.  He shouldered that bitterness.</p>
<p>There are a few things you should know about my past, but thankfully my past has been erased.</p>
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		<title>MapQuesting God</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Sep 2010 04:01:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tom Hogsed</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Communication with God]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Why does God feel distant?  Why is God remaining silent?  Why does it feel like God has abandoned me?  These are questions I have asked plenty of times since becoming a follower of Jesus.   Typically these questions begin surfacing when an unforeseeable circumstance arises and the outcome cannot be governed by me.  I may pray for divine intervention, but when rescue does not arrive quickly I doubt God's nearness.  I may search the Scriptures for peace, but when the answer is not clear I am overcome with confusion and bitterness.  I may seek wise counsel for clarity, but when the explanations are unsatisfactory I am filled with uncertainty.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://tomhogsed.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/740082_planning.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-2991" title="740082_planning" src="http://tomhogsed.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/740082_planning.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a>Why does God feel distant?  Why is God remaining silent?  Why does it feel like God has abandoned me?  These are questions I have asked plenty of times since becoming a follower of Jesus.   Typically these questions begin surfacing when an unforeseeable circumstance arises and the outcome cannot be governed by me.  I may pray for divine intervention, but when rescue does not arrive quickly I doubt God&#8217;s nearness.  I may search the Scriptures for peace, but when the answer is not clear I am overcome with confusion and bitterness.  I may seek wise counsel for clarity, but when the explanations are unsatisfactory I am filled with uncertainty.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been contemplating this dilemma lately.  Is there a way that these questions can be reconciled?  I believe there is a clear answer.  <strong>My feelings do not determine truth.</strong> In other words, the way I feel is not an accurate reflection of reality.  David, under inspiration of the Holy Spirit, wrote these words in Psalm 37:25, &#8220;Once I was young, and now I am old.  Yet I have never seen the godly abandoned&#8230;.&#8221;  According to Scripture, God NEVER forsakes or abandons the righteous.  Although I may feel alone in my circumstance, the truth is that God will NEVER leave me.</p>
<p>God&#8217;s proximity is not measured by my perspective, but by His promise.</p>
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